I have too many friends who can't have children and WANT them . Adoption was the only option for my folks after having me (Iwasn't suppose to be either) I think it is very selfish to think only of your self, i almost was a surrigate for a freind .They luckly found and were able to adopt a child of their ethnic past.
If 3 women I know had not been brave and care enough my pastor and his wife would not have the 3 lovely boys they have now.
I also do not apoligise for my feelings! I was on the pill both times with my 2 children it is not 100% no matter what you do. I wasn't ready to have kids didn't even know if I wanted them, but i wouldn't trade them for the world. I can't say that given the chose that I would not have had them later I don't know.
So me people shouldn't be parents ,but a lot who should can't . I think the first lession in Kindergarden should apply. SHARE!!!!!