BC - I have worked in a vet's office previously and currently work in the medical field - in fact, at the present time I am employed at a hospice. (***Graphic language alert for the squeamish***) I was referring to the fact that often, at the moment of death, the bladder and bowels evacuate. However, your explanation is just as valid and just as likely.

I myself have been on the verge of death, so I know for a fact your other point is right on target - the little kitty was most assuredly not suffering anymore - he was already way too gone for that. But my dad has a strong belief that no one should die alone, and I guess I've always held to that, even for animals, and for that reason I wish I had been petting the little guy when he went, no matter when it was.

Thanks for your comforting words. They are appreciated.