Susan,

You shouldn't feel guilty about grieving for your kitty. It's a very hard thing to go through and I am very sorry for your loss. A good friend of mine just went through this last week. Her boyfriend e-mailed me at work on Wednesday and told me she had to have her beautiful 17 year old persian put down. I left work early to go be with her. Believe me everyone here understands your grief. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.