My hubby is the same way, however I too have cought him red handed !!! Just yesterday morning, he got up at 5 to go to work and I stayed in bed because I had a super love bug laying on side of me under the covers (ABNER) and when Mark came to give me a kiss goodbye, he thought I was sound asleep, but I was not and I caught him giving Abner a head rub and a big KISS on the head.