I have 7 cats and all but 1 is sweet, Scampers (female) is the true "essence of cat"- fat, lazy, and a total snob. The other 6 are 3 girls and 3 boys, and all sooo sweet. I really can't answer the question, except my orange tabby, Jimmy (a male) is probably the most sweet. however, as I'm typing my maine coon, Raisin (female), just jumped on my lap. My answer is it depends on the cat and its breed.