Thanks for the responses.

We have very carefully gone over our different options, and have concluded that it really is best to leave it alone.


Basically, our different options are thus:

1. Take her back to the original person and ask for the surgery to be redone. We did this, and he refused saying that it wasn't life threatening. He offered to open her back up if we were willing to pay; but I DO NOT TRUST HIM AT ALL. If we paid for the surgery, I wanted to take her to somebody I did trust.

2. Hormones. Our vet went over this option with us, but she said that hormones in cats are so delicate, it is so easy for them to get way wacked out.

3. Have our regular vet open her back up. They are willing to do this, but they equated it to "a needle in a haystack" and chances are very high that they could not find it. Besides that, the risk of major surgery (ie infection, etc) was not worth it.

So, we made the educated decision to let her be. Please don't think that we are neglectful or anything like that. We love her so much, and it totally isn't about the $ of another spay job.

It's just that days like today are so hard for me to watch her. It only happens 1-2 times a year, which makes me thankful for all the times that she is normal!