Perry is definately the alpha between him and Miss Daisy. However I believe Miss Daisy believes she is the alpha between her and I.
She will go to my husband but sometimes I can call her and she first will pick up a toy and then come to me if she feels like it. She sleeps in our bed every night and if I'm not there she will crawl up on my pillow and curl up. Not sure if its dominance or the scent. She is getting a little better about coming to me with lots of patience.