Kelly,

We really do have so much in common, its crazy sometimes. I had to take some time off college and felt behind because I am also sick a lot. My plans did change after being diagnosed with diabetes, but my parents supported me on it. I can't even imagine how bad I'd feel if my mother didn't have confidence in me. I'm sure your mom has confidence in you though. Maybe she just wants you to do something else, so she's just pretending to not have confidence.

Anyone who knows you admires you, I'm sure. I completely admire your courage, strength, determination, and devotion. You're a strong woman who can do anything you want.

I believe you can get your PhD, BUT if it makes you sick to stretch yourself that thin, then maybe you can do something else? Something similar, but maybe requiring a tad less school? I'm not saying you couldn't do it, but I don't want to see you make yourself sick.

Whatever you decide, do it for yourself, not your mother. Know that she loves you and does have confidence in you I'm sure.

We all love and support you! *hugs*