I am the "Other" as well. I have been with Dan for almost four years and we have a child together named Dylan, aged 2. I don't know if I really believe in marriage, so as of right now we are not married, not do we have the money to plan an expensive wedding, like I want. If I get married I want it to be FOREVER! So it's something I really need to think about, and him to. We used to be engaged, but we split once, then got back together right before our son was born. We have been through tough times but have always stuck it through. It made us stronger and I love that feeling. I do love this man, and we are in love, just don't see the point of rushing marriage right now. We are focusing on our son, trying to find a house etc. We pretty much are married, just don't have the paperwork. So I guess you can say we are married. I mean, we practically are anyway.

Seriously, we do plan on getting married some day. After we get our house, finish school etc. we will start planning. We talk about it all the time.

Congratulations on your future marriage. Have fun, and don't let the moment pass you by!