Other: widowed just four yrs ago after 10 incredible and wacky years. Had been married (disastrously) at 18 and after 3 yrs and two babies was divorced. Took me over 25 years to risk it again. Best thing I ever did. Too weird and set in my ways to consider it again. I believe Emmy Lou Harris has a song "I never will marry, I'll be no mans wife - I expect to live single, all the rest of my life"