I don't think she has used it yet, either, I even took the top off and checked it. She had the house to herself from 9am - 330pm today I figured if she would go it would be then! She seems more relaxed today, she is coming out and visiting, she actually came up to Shai and sniffed her paw, shortly after an "altercation"(?) hissing, batting and hackles raised on both ends. When she came over to sniff, I held Shai's collar and talked very low to both of them, telling Shai to let Kylie come on her own terms. She did fine, but when Kylie headed back for the bedroom, Shai wanted to return the favor and she was gone!!!
Last night I was shocked into speechlessness, which takes alot for me!!! I was in bed reading, Shai at my feet on the left when I felt this tiny little thump, and I looked and both Kylie AND Shaianne were on the bed!!! I sheepishly admit that my first thought was, "Thank God my legs are covered under the blankets!!!" Kylie came over and curled up by me then it dawns on Shai that the bed is moving and she looks over and she couldn't understand what was snuggling with her mom!!!! Kylie hissed at her, stopped purring and laid there for another minute and then jumped off the bed, Shai followed her, I think this is progress!!! It had been only 12 hours!! I thought as soon as Kylie sees Shai she is out of here, but she lasted a few minutes!!! I coaxed Shai back on the bed, tho I kept getting woke up hearing a hissing sound, and Kylie was over by her litter box, but Shai left her alone, and Nothing in the box today!!
She hasn't eaten or drank much either, she won't even eat the treats her mom gave me!! And she loves them at home!!!
But I think we are making progress, I am trying to give Shai her attention, so she doesn't feel left out, and give Kylie the attention, b/c she has had a rough weekend!!
Actually they both have, and I think Shai needs a bath tomorrow which will just add to the situation!!!