Karen, thank you. I have stopped with it thats what i ment with my last post. I ment i give up on the posty thing, i will never give up on Jo, but your right i don't think i'm all to consistent, and i have admitted that before. I will try to keep it up, actually i have the last few days, just by saying shes good when shes comes in not barking and bad when she barks and put her in her corner (for you ppl no swat) but still my own way, we'll see how it goes