Again I'm sorry you are going through this all and I know how it some how feels like the whole world is fallling on you, but it's not.

Try to look at each thing seperate see what the worse is that can happen and the best that can happen. Even at it worse I'm willing to bet it not so bad that you can't handle it. If the best comes out of it all, then all the better.

What ever your problems are take each one of them at a time starting with the smallest. Never take on all of them at once you will just get so bogged down that you feel you can't get out and the truth is you can. Solving just one small problem can sometimes give people the strength to handle the next one.

Find someone you trust and respect to talk to when it gets to much, someone that will be honest enought to maybe have to say "Tonya give this one up. Move on"

One day at a time.
One step at a time.
That is all anyone can do.

I'll be thinking about you with finger's X for only good things to come.