Your thoughts, please...

[anna_66]

Tonya,
I'm sorry to hear that your having such a hard time with life lately.
I know it's not easy to try and go on, but you have to for you and for your family.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Anna

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

Tonya, I know exactly how you feel. I haven't gone to a doctor but I'm sure I have some sort of depression. I break down easily, have mood swings, everything. [[[[[[[hugs]]]]]]] Please feel free to talk to me.

[Kfamr]

Tonya --


I'm very, very sorry. I honestly know how you feel to some point.

I know my opinion is nothing of value to you, but I really think you need a new job. I've probably read every single one of your posts, and most of them contain something negative/bad about your job. Just about the only ting I've read good about it is the pay. I really honestly think you need to find a less stressful job, one that fits you more, because you can find good pay somewhere else.

Maybe i've just read it all wrong, but that's what i've gotten from it all. Sorry if I have read it wrong and sorry you're feeling so down.

You have my thoughts.

[Tonya]

Originally posted by Kfamr
Tonya --


I'm very, very sorry. I honestly know how you feel to some point.

I know my opinion is nothing of value to you, but I really think you need a new job. I've probably read every single one of your posts, and most of them contain something negative/bad about your job. Just about the only ting I've read good about it is the pay. I really honestly think you need to find a less stressful job, one that fits you more, because you can find good pay somewhere else.

Maybe i've just read it all wrong, but that's what i've gotten from it all. Sorry if I have read it wrong and sorry you're feeling so down.

You have my thoughts.

Thank you. Actually, my job is my dream job. I love it. The only two things I've complained about is this particular guy, and that I can't get bit by dogs. Things are just coming to a head with this guy. All the drama that I've had has been somehow related to him. Everything else about my job is humorous and adventurous.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

How do you feel today?

[Tonya]

I'm ok...thank you.

Today wound up being just a phone interview with some guy and my union steward. It's odd because I feel guilty...Like I'm the one that has done something wrong. I hate to bring back the past, but I'm kind of feeling the same emotions that I did when I was raped when I was younger...like people are thinking "She asked for it..." "She's lying..." "She is exaggerating..." etc...I'm so scared and I have a feeling that people are going to have memory lapse. I'm so scared that they aren't going to believe me. I almost feel like I shouldn't have said something. It's hard to explain I guess.

On Monday, the people are coming. They're going to interview everyone at work. My union steward just informed me that Friday is her last day. Then WTF did you take my case for?! It's going to last months I am sure.

[Tonya]

Bump

[trayi52]

Thats something that seems like has been bred into a lot of women, this little doubt inside that makes them believe they were at fault. Look deep down inside of yourself, Tonya. You done nothing wrong!!NOTHING!!

Maybe someday all this bullcrap will quit falling on women, that always makes a man like that butthead try and blame a woman. You were able to perform your job! Just because he thought a woman should not be doing that job made him feel like less of a man. Women were not made to be kept at home and Barefoot and pregnant, like so many buttholes still think. Yes there are still men like that out there..

It has always been my belief that a woman can do anything a man can do, and sometimes better, if she chooses to do so.

Guess what? Men can't do the same thing we can do......LOL!

[Tonya]

LoL. You are so right. I always tease the guys at work. (Well, before all this drama...) that women are much better....We are capable of working, being a mother, a wife, running a household, etc...all at the same time. All men are capable of doing is working. lol.

[trayi52]

Remember the little sign that said something about women work all the time, when men work they put up signs!

My daughter printed that off and hung it in her bedroom. I have tried to teach my daughter to never think themselves to be lower than men. You would think that it would have changed by now. But it hasn't! I think that is the saddest thing.

My husband says he hates to deal with women, like I told him women have to fight to get the respect they deserve. It is men like that, that make a woman have to be tough. I admire tough women. I think they are the greatest. Some men are so dumb, they don't realize they make us have to fight back and if we have to we will fight dirty and go for the jewels.

Jimmy, my hubby knows how to get me riled up. All he has to say is, that is womans work, and he knows I will go off on him...

Willie