Originally posted by Tonya
Good advice. Like you said, it's not worth ruining relationships over, but it sure is hurtful and inconsiderate.

Yeah it's hurtful and inconsiderate and sometimes that is harder to get over then the lost of the items. But do your best to try to get over the hurt because in the long run it is family. No matter how inconsiderate they may be.....we still love them. Even though there are those days where we wish we didn't love them.


Pick your battles and your time and then consider if the battle worth it in the long run. Thats my way at least, think long turm. I might get what I want now but in the long run will it be worth it. If the answer is no then don't fight over it.