You sound like you could be describing a typical day in my house with Jan and Joxer. She can be so mean and jealous. Sometimes my husband will give her "snuggle" therapy by putting on a jacket and unzipping it halfway and sticking her in the jacket - she looks like a little baby kangaroo this way...

This can calm her down.

We also feed "the princess" in a separate room away from the boys and this helps too.

I just don't know what it is sometimes with girl kitties and their dispositions.


I might try that vanilla thing myself and see how it works.