Thank you for your replies and especially the humor which made me feel heaps better. If we do the ostrich head in the sand thing he will end up living with us. She's not fighting to have him back at all so why should we bother.
I will definitely put up a pic of him. He's got a sticky out lower lip, short whiskas and wiry fur on the back of his neck so he's very characterful. Friendly-Puss's real name is Scooby. In the mean time here's a pic of Dudley and his late sister Penelope. They were lovely together for the firdst 6 months then Dudley was an absolute monster to her - we were so stressed by her being ousted from the house by him and becoming more introvert we said we'd never have 2 cats again. It's miraculous for us that Duds and Scoob get on together so well except for when Scoob makes the mistake of sleeping in a Dudley place and gets bitten until he moves.
I look forward to reading other replies.
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