Originally posted by jenluckenbach
Well, Bailey, Ice Queen, walked up to me today and gave me head bumpies and let me give her some scritchies on her head. WOW!!! She'll never be a social butterfly, but she does melt a little. Now all we need is a home for her where they don't care how long it takes for her to trust. And she may NEVER want to be held. But she most definitely looks at me with softer eyes these days (not the death looks I got in the begining)
Sounds like she is thawing

Welcome Bailey, you have landed on your feet with a foster place with Jen.

I honestly think, some cats only settle with some people.

Take Sandy, he is certainly not the violent monster we were lead to believe. Fair enough he still gives us baby bites and no claw slaps and mainly lives upstairs but he will come around in time and even if he doesn't he is 10,000 times better than we were lead to believe.

I know Bailey is currently more problematic but if you can look into her eyes and see her, you'll know if she can come around given time.