Well, Bailey, Ice Queen, walked up to me today and gave me head bumpies and let me give her some scritchies on her head. WOW!!! She'll never be a social butterfly, but she does melt a little. Now all we need is a home for her where they don't care how long it takes for her to trust. And she may NEVER want to be held. But she most definitely looks at me with softer eyes these days (not the death looks I got in the begining)