Fox-Gal, this is a much needed thread. Maybe it will help others to be able to sort through their problems. I hate to see the people that I care about argue. I think you are a great addition to Pet Talk. I love all your stories, the one about our hubbys chickens, LOL.

All Creatures Great And Small, I am so sorry about your dad passing away, I know how it hurts. Ann and I lost our dad a few years ago. We didn't have the fighting among the siblings thing going on, so this really has to be hard on you with that to top it all off. I hope that things will work out and all will get along.

Its like Fox-Gal said, we all have different ways of grieving. Me, I just wanted to cry all the time, and could not talk without crying. I still have my days and nights to cry, anything can set me off.

Yes this is a much needed thread, indeed. Bring us all together, the way it should be.

Willie