Tonya, I'm sorry for your loss. I have never lost a friend or loved one to a drunk driver, but, still feel very strongly about drinking and driving, and like robin said....a very appropriate time to post. I have decided that we will be in the house by dark and won't go back out until tomorrow. I think we will watch movies at home. Please know that you and your friend will be in my thoughts and prayers.

It is an incredibly generous thing for you to even consider taking her son. I'm sure that he will be much much better off with you and your husband as parents rather than a loser boyfriend (who I am guessing is a partier too).

Good luck and let us know please what you decide.