Hi and welcome. Payitforward was the very first person I thought of when I read your story. A high spirited kitten, especially a wild type like a Bengal may not have been your best choice for a 10 year old suffering from the loss of his friends, but it is done. If a 3rd kitty was ever a thought that ever crossed your mind, that would be my very first suggestion. If not, try playing with your kitten a lot to keep him satisfied (and tired) and allowing Sugar some quality time of his own. if that means closing the kitten away from the 2 of you, so be it. Maybe, just for now, you could make Sugar think he is getting the same food as the kitten by a slight mixing of the food. You don't want to jeopardize his health, but maybe a treat now and then would help the situation. And last but not least, remember that time is your friend and this too shall pass. They just need to get more used to each other, and the kitten will grow. And as he does, their relationship will grow and change too.
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