I'm not a pit bull owner myself. But - I don't see what the problem is!!! He's nice to people and he's nice to your dog. Big deal if he shows a little bit of alpha behavior with small dogs. SOMEBODY has to be alpha! If there's a problem, just don't bring him around small dogs when he's off leash!

I mean - Max is a shepherd/rott mix. He looks big and scary. He's sort of dominant as well. We live on the bus stop corner. Whenever the little kindergartners are being dropped off or picked up, Max is indoors. Whenever we take him for a walk in town, he's on a leash. When smaller dogs are around we keep a close eye on him.

We still love and enjoy him, and we won't let anybody make us feel bad about who he is. Max is Max, and we love him!

Budha is Budha. If he's not hurting anybody, and you're not having problems with him at home, then you're fine. Nobody should try to make you feel bad about him.