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I don't really have any great advice. I have 4 females and they all just barely tolerate each other. Certain ones are better with others than other ones. For example....Brianna will touch noses with Katie and Deirdre once in a while but she and Kaliban can't look at one another without hissing. And Katie will run around and scream at all the other cats at times...but will lay down near Deirdre. Deirdre doesn't mind any of them coming to close to her as long as she isn't in my lap. If she is in my lap then Katie and Kaliban can sit next to me and she doesn't mind but Brianna can't get anywhere near me or Deirdre will swat and hiss at her. Kaliban just barely tolerates Katie and Deirdre and will once in a great while play with Katie...but like I said in the earlier sentence she won't let Brianna get anywhere near her. This has been going on for 2 and a half years now. I figure that as long as there isn't any bloodshed and no one is peeing in an inappropriate spot then I am winning the game.

I just holler at them when it gets too loud. Sometimes I make them go into seperate corners and look out windows till they get over whatever annoyed them at the moment. I have tried the Feliway and I found it didn't reall work all that well. I find that most of the aggression comes from jealosy about Meowmie time. When we come home quietly and unexpectedly we often find all of them on the bed together...not touching mind you...but on the bed together.

Denyce