I am glad to hear, most importantly, that you and your husband have "made up", and have an understanding now. It can be a very stressful situation having a pet mess in the house. I know, we are just about done potty training Dale, but it was a hard few months with him and it stressed my husband and I out on more than one occasion.

I know how hard it is to have to rehome a pet also. But if i had never rehomed Gabe, he never would have had the chance to live out the rest of his life with Greamer and Miley (and mommy SAS), the best things to happen to him...he would have missed out on it...Knowing that your cats will find great homes (b/c you will be careful of who you adopt them out to)...you and your husbands relationship can heal a little, which is most important out of all of this, in my opinion...so just know that rehoming does sound like the best thing for your entire family...which matters most...and maybe their next family can keep in touch with you and send updates, so you can know (how i had the luck in knowing about Gabe)...how they are, and how perfect their new homes are for them. I think everything will work out fine...and all parties included will be content. (((((HUGS)))))