Oh Kelly, I am so sorry things are not going well

I agree that it would be best to rehome Emma if the eye surgeon still wants him.

I don't know what to suggest about Phoebe, I believe in fate, if you are meant to keep her you will, else a new home will be found. Good Luck either way.

Re...David, I need to repeat Cataholic's quote.

Originally posted by Cataholic
Either he stays with you, and deals with the fact you have cats, or he doesn't. It isn't fair to you for him to accept it sometimes, and then be resentful others. You could have a far worse 'problem' then being too compassionate about cats.
As David allowed you to adopt these cats, this is a commitment you both made together. The time to object to any cat, was pre-adoption not now.

In light of your current situation, I spoke to Steve about our cats (As I have a tendancy to be very stubborn at times)

When I asked his about whether we agreed about the adoption of our cats. He said "Well, you didn't want Bramble, at first" Which is true, not that I would be without her now.

I know Steve wasn't 100% behind adopting Sandy, he thought Sandy would remain very angry (which is funny considering that Sandy prefers him to me.)

But at the shelter I said it was his decision because if I get run over tomorrow, I didn't want Sandy to end up at another shelter

David, has to realise that these cats are family and need to be treated as such. But I am sure he spoke those words out of anger, as when you post about him, he comes across as jointly caring for your cats ?

We are here, if you need to talk.. Sending Prayers and positive thoughts your way.