My RB Sunny was a shoulder cat. I learned how to wash dishes, cook and just about everything one-handed with a HUGE cat draped over my shoulder while I would prop him up with the other hand. Now my Emmitt and Moon are both lap cats. Emmitt always wants to stretch out across my lap especially when I'm just about to leave for work Jenny's (D-inLaw) momma cat is a velcro cat with her only. BouBou hangs across my sons shoulders and Spook does whatever he wants to whomever he wants My dogs are all lap dogs... at least they TRY to fit!