You know what, even if they never bond, and they may never since it has been 4 months already, if we have seen the worst, then we can live with it. Mimi has always been very independent, asking for love and accepting it, only when it suited her! Butter has obviously never had much affection in his life, and it shows in his actions, but every day, he is a little more interested in us, a little closer, allows a few more back scratches,etc. In fact, last night, Mimi and Lilly were in the bed with Helen, Honey was sleeping on the floor by my bed, and Butter came in and went to sleep on the pillow right beside my head. That is a first! He usually sleeps on the foot of the bed if he is inside at night. That's all that matters. They are both so precious and I cannot tell you the joy I feel at having them here.
One Happy Logan