Missers - I apologize for some of my harsh words. I know you love your cat and want the best for him, or you would not have taken the time to find a solution to your problem. However, I don't find anywhere in my post that I even intimated that you abused your cat. The thought never even entered my mind. I just can't imagine being a living creature with plush, comfortable objects all around and not being able to experience the pleasure of being able to use them. The kitty has no choice in all this, but the humans who seem to have conflicting desires do. But that certainly doesn't mean I thought you were abusing him. I'm truly sorry you took offense, offense was not intended, and I truly hope you can find a solution that makes the entire household happy.