adamjai,
Welcome to Pet Talk! You have a female with a boys name, well so do I, Grover is a girl. There were some reasons for her being named Grover, one is I didn't know if she was a boy or a girl when she came into my life, and the other is the grandkids insisted she be named Grover after the character from sesame (sp?) street, because she was found in a trashcan, when she was about two weeks old.

I didn't realize that torties and calicos were most always female, I had owned several calicos when I was growing up, they were always female, just never entered my mind about the explanation for it.

Grover is a pretty good girl, she is still very young, I am glad to hear that all torties are not all mean, I breathe a sigh of relief on that. I wish you had pictures of your torties to show, we love pictures here, love showing off our pets.

Sounds like your torties are very sweet, so please post pictures if at all possible. So one of yours has long hair? I bet she is beautiful.

I will be watching for some pics, and again Welcome to Pet Talk!

Tray