Originally posted by CatFancy33
Well, I think everyone here can agree with me when I say that it's rather hard to convey the emotion, attitude, and personality of our cats on these boards. To assume such would make one ignorant. To assume, then to judge, would make one foolishly rude and ignorant. I didn't post this situation on these boards for someone to call me "selfish" or "cruel". I posted it for help or suggestions.

"I don't even want to try to find a home for him"? Hrmm, this is a rather interesting comment. I don't remember you living in my home and knowing the efforts in which I have gone through to find him a home in the first place.

If you want I can post a 4 month discrption of my entire life. Including my feelings and personal anguish concerning this. Point is this. I don't mean to quote guests on Jerry Springer but. "You don't know me!" LOL. You don't know the ENTIRE situation. Don't presume to know the entire situation. Best to just take what I say for face value and not probe deep into the mental world of my psyche.

I"m done with the thread. Sorry I came here for some help and understanding, not for abuse or flaming. I feel sad that such promising topic turned sour and many others, aside from myself, cannot benefit from the knowledge some can muster.
Help = I have offered to help with the cost, transporting Mr Raggs.
Suggestons = Don't endanger your current cats. Let Mr Raggs have a proper life.

I have been thought this situation myself, I understand how quick & easy it is, to get attached and to love a stray cat BUT we are adults and have to think, first for our current pets, second for the stray cat and lastly about ourselves.

I have been strong and very to the point in my posts but not abusive or flaming.

It is easier for strangers to see the big picture, you just see a cat you want to help.

We want you to help Mr Ragg so he has the best possible life, not to be locked away for life, that is no life for any cat.

Your thread is full of compassion and emotion, you sound like a good person but you need to be more logical in your approach to Mr Ragg. OK

If you want any other links or help for Mr Raggs, just post.

Goodnight