I have a kitty that is 5 years old and just in the past couple of years has started to come around. He used to be just like what you described. He still doesn't care to be picked-up, but now likes to be petted. He still hides a lot and sometimes when you approach him he runs. It has taken a lot of time, love and patience. Your kitty may come around slowly. I doubt that your kitty doesn't like you, he is probably just really really timid for some reason. Have you spoken to your vet about ways to "bring him out of his shell"?