I understand your point completely. I think it is just a terrible legacy and I hope someday the entire country will be able to look past it- although I doubt that day will come in my lifetime.Originally posted by mahayana
2Kitties- I am on your side in resenting the desparagement of Southerners that is all too common today. You grew up in the New South (you are the same age as my oldest son); I was a teenager during the '60s when it was against the law in 17 States for blacks and whites to attend the same schools.
Suffice to say that the history of white southerners and white northerners, and their dislike of each other, was the background of the fight over implementing the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
I could share lots of details and personal experiences from back then, but I'm not sure it helps. And I really do understand why you love North Carolina.![]()
Like PCB said, there are some really awful places where it still exists. In fact, there are some high schools who still have separate proms for the black and the whites. But, they also exist in the midwest. Although CNN only reports on the ones in Georgia. Jews are still stereotyped in NYC, Mormons in Utah, hispanics in Texas and Florida.
I think I was just amazed that when we moved to WI, even one of the realtors we met with said "and you don't have to worry about any colored in this neighborhood". I couldn't even believe it and she said it without hesitation! We didn't buy from her. I'd never experienced anything like that in NC. I don't deny the south still has remnants of what most of us find embarrassing, but I honestly believe the majority of us are kind, educated, open minded people who are not the gun-totin' rednecks we're imagined.
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