I'm so sorry to hear about this Julie. I don't have anything else to offer you except some cyberhugs and prayers that everything will work out in the end. Prayers and positive thoughts are being sent your way. I sure hope that your husband can become more patient because it can take many months for cats to like each other.

My Storm and Cirrus don't get along either but luckily Cirrus is so afraid of Storm that he hides so no real fights break out. He only hisses and growls at Storm. I've learned to live with it and try not to interfere too much. Good luck Julie and please take care of yourself. {{{{HUGS}}}}