Originally posted by catmandu
The thing that i would try , is to completey sepeperate hem , the slowly reintroduce them. It seems as though Connor is misiterpretting the Lily Cats attempts at Play. Patience , as I still have Cat Fights!
I agree with Catmandu, I would seperate them completely for a week or two and start again.....very slowly.

This will give Ally time to recover and lessen her stress.

Tell your hubby it can take upto 6 months for cats to settle in to a new home, more if the cats are inside only (makes them more clingly to their home)

Fingers and paws crossed here, thinking of Ally & Conner

In the meantime enjoy a glass of wine and try to relax.

PS. I have heard that Feliway take several days to work totally but I haven't actually used it myself.