I am so sorry this is happening, but I think Bisi.cat has hit the nail on the head. Time alone might iron problems out. The natural remedies might also help, but feel free to ask your vet for prescriptions if he feels it would be helpful. I will not only pray that things will work themselves out, I wll also pray for patience on your husbands part. Some things in life take time, and the end results are worth the wait.