hey Missy - This is EXACTLY what Emily does to me. When dad is at work all day, I am all she has and she is very lovey dovey. Wants to be held, sits on my lap and purrs, head bumpies, the full treatment. She can even be snuggled on the bed with me, but HE walks in the door and she is off like a dart and turns her little butt to me from then on. Even gives me dirty looks!!! I reach out to pet her when he is around and she shrinks away like I beat her regularly. I want to scream! This is one for a kitty shrink BRAT!!