I understand what you and your family are going through right now. I lost my mother to cancer when I was quite young. 3 years ago, my father was diagnosed with leukemia. Unfortunately, he came out of remission this summer. But after 2 hospitalizations and further chemotherapy, he's finally beginning to rally again. This type of illness leaves everyone in the family feeling stressed and frightened and tired. But you need each other to lean on and to give each other strength. Sometimes just talking about your feelings helps. I don't know what type of cancer your Dad has or if he's undergoing treatment. But both chemotherapy and raditaion treatment often leaves the person feeling lots worse before they begin to feel better. Some days my Dad was so exhausted and nauseated, he could barely face the day. I'll be keeping your Dad in my extra special "Daddy" prayers and sending lots of positive thoughts your way. Hang in there. Big hugs to you and Moosie Love, Sandra