I visited Japan several years ago and was also surprised how many polite people there were. Even if they didn't understand English they went out of their way to try to help us! The hotel we stayed in (in Toyoko) had "western" toliets, but I sure was shocked when I saw the ladies room over there. It is just a hole in the ground that you squat over, no doors or privacy, either. It sure takes some interesting manuvering when you have hip problems and really need to go!!

Enjoy your stay over there, take plenty of pictures and buy lots of things! Also go to as many places you possibly can.....it is a very beautiful country. I sure wish I could go back!!