I'm on your team with this one Reptiles. It's a cruel thing to do to the man as well as the baby.

I also think it is a cruel thing to do to yourself. I mean, yes, I could get preggers and force my man down the aisle if I'm that desperate to get married. But is that really the way you want it to go down? I want to have a beautiful wedding with a man who chooses me because he wants a future with me and go on a beautiful honeymoon then plan a family. Giving all of those dreams up because I've no patience or confidence in myself--- makes no sense to me.