I will be good and just say that makes me mad. I think that is kind of rude of her to put you on the spot like that too. I hope that the poor kitty can find another home.

On the other side the neighbour may be a unfeeling moron, but at least they did try. Ok, so I may be giving more credit then deserved.

Good luck with the effort, I know that you will do all that you can.