I have 28 cards adressed and written up to now and I have them addressed like they were in the list. But in the greetings part I only mentioned the husbands when I knew them.

And the same with the pets.

Filou and Tigris were sitting there and in some cases they wanted to add some headbumpies. But they were a little reluctant with dawgs they didn't know.

My husband won't feel left out if left out. He thinks (although he never said a word ) "She is crazy with that PT but I know already from years of experience that the (old) girl has to do what she has to do and so I don't waste my time and energy by telling her."