Thanks Karen. I can't wait until I get to California. I was supposed to go this month but my mom wants me to go next month instead, on Christmas Vacation so the kids don't have to worry about school while I am visiting. Then I can help my dad with everything.

I talked to my mom tonight to see if she can get ahold of my brother and I guess that will be no help as my brother and his girlfriend are splitting up and just got evicted from their apartment. So now my nephew is going to stay with his mother I think and my brother will babysit when she works or what not, although I believe my Ethan is better off with my brother. My brother finally cannot take Pauline any longer..........wonder why it took him so long.

Anyways tomorrow I will try to get ahold of my brother and see if he can go help my dad, as he still doesn't know what happened to gramps.