Well we talked briefly about putting him into a home, where he will at least have meals everyday, and clean living quarters. Then my dad could sell the trailor, or move into that trailor after it gets fixed up, as it is bigger than the one he has now. Then he can give the smaller one to me. hehe.

Anyways, I haven't thought of in home care yet, but that could be an option. He can cook and clean for himself, he just will not fix the toilet because he is stubborn and spends his money on other things. I am sure he could have the money to fix it, he just won't. It makes me so mad sometimes. Other than that, he's fine to be on his own, but it would be great to know he is being taken care of and has people to motivate him to take a shower etc. That is just no way to live for an old man.

My dad made a promise to my grandma when she died, and that was so always watch over my grandpa, and he feels that if he does put him in a home he is letting her down, but he just can't do it anymore. It's too much for him right now and he needs to focus on his own health. Harry (my grandpa) will have to go through a few weeks of rehab.

My dad and I are already going to have "that talk" about what happens when he dies etc. Gosh, I really don't know what I am going to do if he died and I am stuck with all his bills. I am going to be a bum for sure, he has sooo many bills, I could never pay them ever. And chances are, it will be me paying for everything because my brother doesn't give a damn about anyone but himself. I don't even think I could have a funeral for him, would the state pay for a funeral?

I shouldn't even be thinking of this, I hate this. YUCK!

Katz, I got your PM.

Thanks everyone, I just really needed someone to talk to, this is all just so frustrating.