Okay. Let's all stop giving her a hard time. Assuming Stormy is talking about a boy at her school- which she says is true- and not an adult, then it is perfectly natural. Many girls her age are interested in boys. It's biological. Some girls get interested earlier, some later. God knows when I was 14, all I could think about was the boys at school and who was going to be at the dance on Friday.
This is a critical age in learning to deal with the opposite sex, in getting confidence and understanding how to define and set limits, in learning what you like and don't like in potential dates. I think it is a perfectly natural question that many if not most of us have asked during our adolescence.
Stormy, the first thing you need to know is that the boys don't know any more about girls than you know about boys. They're just as intimidated and nervous. Yes, he's probably looking at your butt, but probably because he doesn't know what else to do and how to talk to you. He hasn't learned yet what to say to a girl and how to make her like him for who he is inside. Girls mature faster, that's a fact. You can, if you play your cards right, have the upper hand in the situation. Initiate conversation and exude confidence. Confidence is the most attractive quality no matter what your age- 14 or 41.

Alot of girls think they can get boys by tossing around sex appeal. Well, here's the deal about that. We've all got sex appeal, it's built-in. So, there is nothing unique about tossing about sex. Find what makes you unique and toss it about.