How do you get a guy to notice you?

[sweet_stormy]

This is not an animal thing.
I was just wondering what you guys think would make a guy notice you. I like this one guy (i already told him) and i dont know if he notices me. my friends say that he looks at my butt. but i dont know if he was. How do you get a guy to notice you? i really want him to notice me, i just dont know what to do. plz, i need your advice on this.

~Sweet_stormy~

[Kater]

I would suggest talking to him and making an effort to get to know him better. I think you probably want him to like you for more than just your butt!

[Soledad]

Be yourself. If that's not enough for him, he's a loser.

[primabella]

Well do you want a guy noticing you or your butt? Lol.

Soledad is right. I have liked plenty of guys but if I'd have to change myself to impress them then...screw it. Maybe if you talk with him more, see if you have things in common...if you have certain qualities that are appealinig (sense of humor ect) I would try to sort of show them off. But don't go out of character or anything...

*sigh* Me giving guy advice...go figure.

[2kitties]

Honestly, and I mean this, just be outgoing and friendly. A guy will "notice" you for a lot of things. But the trick is getting them to notice you for the reasons you want!
I think it is just important to be kind, friendly and fun. Don't try to be scared or play silly games. Just be yourself and have conversation and be interested in what he has to say. That will get you far.

[wolfsoul]

I say being outgoing is the best way to get a guy's attention.

Unfotunatly for me, I can only be outgoing when I have a friend around, or if I have been around him with my friend in the past.

[momofcats]

I am going to be the party pooper here.
Last month you questioned about it being ok to date an older guy. Date...depends on the age, people, maturity....sex not ok.

I just want to make sure (being a mom of a 14 year old) that we are not talking about this again...don't want to give you advice on how to get this "older guys" attention.

[2kitties]

Originally posted by momofcats
I am going to be the party pooper here.
Last month you questioned about it being ok to date an older guy. Date...depends on the age, people, maturity....sex not ok.

I just want to make sure (being a mom of a 14 year old) that we are not talking about this again...don't want to give you advice on how to get this "older guys" attention.

oooh, good catch MOC.

[RICHARD]

you want guys to notice you??

two ways to do that.

dress like cristina, act like madonna and be a nitwit like
brittney....guys will notice you for about 5 minutes then go on
to the next 'girl'

stay in school, be successful, earn boatloads of money and
act like a lady, they get notice for a long time.


Five minutes or a long time, it's up to you.

[primabella]

Originally posted by momofcats
I am going to be the party pooper here.
Last month you questioned about it being ok to date an older guy. Date...depends on the age, people, maturity....sex not ok.

I just want to make sure (being a mom of a 14 year old) that we are not talking about this again...don't want to give you advice on how to get this "older guys" attention.

I didn't even know about that question... You have a point. I was assuming it was someone in her school.

[2kitties]

Originally posted by RICHARD
you want guys to notice you??

two ways to do that.

dress like cristina, act like madonna and be a nitwit like
brittney....guys will notice you for about 5 minutes then go on
to the next 'girl'

stay in school, be successful, earn boatloads of money and
act like a lady, they get notice for a long time.


Five minutes or a long time, it's up to you.

Richard you sure do know how to make the girls notice you! (winks and flutters eyelashes while flashing loads of cash and bling bling)

[RICHARD]

Originally posted by 2kitties
Richard you sure do know how to make the girls notice you! (winks and flutters eyelashes while flashing loads of cash and bling bling)

lololololol,

I'm sorry......
I meant to say, Be financially independent....buy a yacht...
THEN fill it with money!!!

[2kitties]

Ah "sail away with me, to another world..."

[popcornbird]

Why do you want guys to notice your.........

I don't want guys to notice me. They can stay away.........far far away. They're welcome to keep.....their.....distance. He he he

Ps. Do you think of anything other than guys? This is the 3rd thread you made on such a topic recently.

[G.P.girl]

if you change yourself to make him like you and you guys end up going out or whatever you can't stay changed forever. you'll just end up breaking up or something. i think. you should try getting to know him better, talkto him ands tuff