Ok Sirrahbed now is the time!!! Get that orange, orange and white male!!! I love and adore all my kitties but for the most part they are not lap kitties. Leroy org/wht is on me so much that I have to peel him off at times just to go to the restroom. When he is not on my lap he is usually in trouble! He keeps life interesting and lovable all at the same time. He looks a lot like your grandkitty! Go for it...Just do it...Now is the time!! It will make you happy and you could rescue a new wonderful kitty at the same time!!