Hey Sirrahsim (my daughter) I think Peanut & Tubby's mom has good advice - when that time comes and hubby agrees to a second cat - it should be known as "his". I get jealous when I see Emily adoring her daddy and turning her little butt to me. Eliot can be a big mama's boy - but only when he is in the mood. He does prefer me though - but no cat has "owned" me except for RB Bert. That cat adored me and it was mutual. Again - when that time comes, I think Paul will chose and adore (and be adored). He is NOT a cat person but will have to learn to be - married to you!!
By the way I am *that* close to going out and getting myself an orange male!! We raised three kids - why not three cats?? I firmly believe that orange males were made just for mommies!!