Kirsten please don't feel guilty for feeling a stronger bond with one kitty over another. I really think that is natural. It's like people, you can have lots of really good friends, but there is something really special about one or two that makes them your very best friends. I love all of my cats deeply and each in a different and special way because they are different. I would do anything for them but there is a soft spot in my heart for my little trouble maker Leroy. I don't know why but I know its ok because I do love them all and care for them equally. I'm sure it's the same for you. Don't let that silly friend of yours make you feel bad. I say the male is peeing in the sink because he is in a house with an unspayed female and is starting to feel his oats!! He is marking his turf!
You just keep loving and caring for Lily and don't pay any attention to this guy because he is wrong! It would be a shame for her to have to readjust again and what about poor Luna?? You can't take her buddy!
It will all be ok just keep those two buddies together and ignore his comments. Seperating them now would do harm to both of them. This guy will get over it!![]()
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