It all depends. At 14 no but when I was 16 I met Corey which is now my husband, at the time he was 22. We have been together for 5 years. I honestly think it has been the best 5 years of my life. He got me through things that I wouldn't have been able to get my self through. Sure alot of people had alot of thoughts about the two of us. At the same time my parents were ok with it because they seen how happy he made me. If Corey would have been anyone else then they would have made me stay home. No dating no nothing. If I was 14 and Corey was 22 then no my parents would have stepped in right away. Especially my dad. My dad liked Corey he didn't mind at all as long as Corey didn't hurt me my dad was fine with him.
So I think it depends. At your age you shouldn't be dating an 18 year old. So it's only 4 years between you two. Look at it this way. He's 18 your 14, would you want to date a 10 year old? That is still 4 years. But that would be sick. Right?